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( mostly just introspection that happens to take place over the public internet )

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sometimes "the real masculinity is being confident enough to be GNC" is the message someone needs to hear, but sometimes it's "it's ok to not have masculinity as a goal" and i think those two kind of trade against each other in discourse space even without literally contradicting each other.

but you should not listen to me on this subject, I have absolutely no opinion on what real masculinity actually is and have deliberately removed myself from that conversation.